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Curated paths into the archive. Each playlist orders episodes for a clear first listen.

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New listener

How TTMT works, why talking matters, and a gentle way into the archive.

4 episodes

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Fathers

Good enough, pregnancy, fathers day stories, and finding your place at home.

5 episodes

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Money

Broke mentality, couples finance, status, and what you are willing to risk for wealth.

5 episodes

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Relationships

Love languages, toxicity, dating apps, and showing up for women and partners.

5 episodes

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Work

Blackness in professional spaces, history, leadership, and false pedestals.

4 episodes

Episodes · Relationships

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Ep29 | Is Porn And Masturbation Damaging Us?

*Contains Adult Language* Why is there such a taboo around masturbation? Is Porn a bad thing? Sex is such a natural and common thing and yet we find it so uncomfortable to talk about. Mikel joins us to try and break the negative percepti…

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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65 min

Ep26 | How Can I Manage My Money & A Relationship? (Ft Emmanuel Asuquo)

We hit on a big topic, Money and Relationships! Its such a challenge to be in a relationship or even start dating when you have financial struggles. What are your financial goals and do they meet the ambitions of your partner. We are joi…

  • Money
  • Relationships

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69 min

Ep23 | Should We Be Protecting Women Better? (Ft Ryan & Denzil)

With the ongoing events of men abusing, kidnapping and even killing women is it now time to take a stand as men and say enough? How do we tackle this deep rooted issue? Who takes ownership and responsibility? Simon, Craig, Ryan and Denzi…

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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68 min

Ep22 | Am I Creating A Toxic Relationship? (Ft Adrian & LJ)

Arguments are a natural part of a relationship, you have to learn about each other and come to an understanding that works for both parties. Unfortunately many relationships end because of a level of toxicity involved. Control, Dominance…

  • Relationships

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59 min

Ep17 | Am I A D**khead?! (Ft Aaron Roach Bridgeman)

*This episode contains adult content* This episode brings together the thoughts of Simon, Craig and Aaron to discuss the male ego. where does the male ego stem from? why do we not associate ego with women? Is having an ego even a bad thi…

  • Masculinity
  • Relationships

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53 min

Ep15 | Am I A Liability To Women? (Ft Denzil)

*This episode contains adult content* As men, how do we value our women? Why is it that many of us associate sex with value? If she has a high body count is she less respectable? If she sleeps with you on the first date is she a hoe? is …

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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51 min

Ep13 | Has Social Media Ruined Dating? (Ft Trebla & Josh)

Times are changing and our relationships are often initially built through apps rather than face to face, but is this a good thing? How do you deal with meeting new people when they are not always showing you there true self? How do you …

  • Relationships
  • Work

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54 min

SPECIAL: Men In Relationships & Love Languages (Ft Stefan)

Valentines day is a day for sharing, be it gifts, love or time. But how do we express our love when we are in a relationship? Simon and Craig are joined by SJP to talk about, love, relationships, love language. How do you like to receive…

  • Relationships

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45 min

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