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Curated paths into the archive. Each playlist orders episodes for a clear first listen.

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New listener

How TTMT works, why talking matters, and a gentle way into the archive.

4 episodes

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Fathers

Good enough, pregnancy, fathers day stories, and finding your place at home.

5 episodes

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Money

Broke mentality, couples finance, status, and what you are willing to risk for wealth.

5 episodes

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Relationships

Love languages, toxicity, dating apps, and showing up for women and partners.

5 episodes

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Work

Blackness in professional spaces, history, leadership, and false pedestals.

4 episodes

Episodes · Masculinity & ego

Theme·Masculinity & ego

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Ep29 | Is Porn And Masturbation Damaging Us?

*Contains Adult Language* Why is there such a taboo around masturbation? Is Porn a bad thing? Sex is such a natural and common thing and yet we find it so uncomfortable to talk about. Mikel joins us to try and break the negative percepti…

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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65 min

SPECIAL: This Is Why We Celebrate Our Fathers!

Happy Fathers Day As men we often struggle with showing affection. Particularly fathers towards their sons, so we decided to tackle this head on and invite our dads to talk about fatherhood, masculinity and so much more. Listen to the st…

  • Fathers
  • Masculinity

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85 min

Ep28 | Are You A False Leader? (Ft Anthony Odle & PJ)

With so many Icons of our past being humanised by the mistakes they have made we thought it was a great opportunity to talk about how we wrongly put people on a pedestal and follow false leaders. but what is a false leader? and where sho…

  • Masculinity
  • Work
  • Fathers

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74 min

Ep27 | Am I Willing To Die To Get Rich? (Ft Targhe)

Are we willing to die for the money, better yet WHY are we dying for it? Money is one of the biggest motivations and some will even go as far as to die to get rich or even kill to get the bag. We are joined by Targhe to talk about our ex…

  • Money
  • Masculinity

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67 min

Ep25 | Am I Man Enough? Questioning My Masculinity (Ft Joss Cambridge-Simmons)

A question we all ask ourselves at some point in our lives. Am I Man Enough? Joss cambridge-simmons joins us to talk about his experiences being comfortable with his own masculinity and the challenges we face as men battling social const…

  • Masculinity

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63 min

Ep24 | How Do We Heal Broken Men? (Ft Alex Holmes)

How do we heal broken men? Can we, is it our responsibility? We all experience ups and downs but not healing from our traumas can be very damaging. Simon, Craig and Alex talk about how men can help themselves and break away from the thin…

  • Grief
  • Masculinity

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66 min

Ep23 | Should We Be Protecting Women Better? (Ft Ryan & Denzil)

With the ongoing events of men abusing, kidnapping and even killing women is it now time to take a stand as men and say enough? How do we tackle this deep rooted issue? Who takes ownership and responsibility? Simon, Craig, Ryan and Denzi…

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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68 min

Ep17 | Am I A D**khead?! (Ft Aaron Roach Bridgeman)

*This episode contains adult content* This episode brings together the thoughts of Simon, Craig and Aaron to discuss the male ego. where does the male ego stem from? why do we not associate ego with women? Is having an ego even a bad thi…

  • Masculinity
  • Relationships

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53 min

Ep15 | Am I A Liability To Women? (Ft Denzil)

*This episode contains adult content* As men, how do we value our women? Why is it that many of us associate sex with value? If she has a high body count is she less respectable? If she sleeps with you on the first date is she a hoe? is …

  • Relationships
  • Masculinity

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51 min

Ep6 | When Do I Become A Man? (Ft Ebenezer)

Ebenezer takes part in this topic to discuss with Simon and Craig, whats its like becoming a man. Am I a man? when did I transition into one? and what do I need to do now that I am no longer a boy? Manhood is a very subjective topic and …

  • Masculinity

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42 min

Ep3 | Is There More To Life Than Just Us? (Ft Simon S)

In this episode we bring our friend Simon into the conversation to talk about how he built his relationship with God and how faith is a pivotal part in the way he now chooses to live his life. Join Simon (SJ) and Craig to uncover discuss…

  • Trust
  • Masculinity

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37 min

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